You must be pulling your hair out by now! I admire you for sticking with this.alwayz_luveable wrote:is it ok for the red to eat both live fish and pellets... oh can anyone tells male or female this it word is driving me nuts..
All things considered, you might want to slow down on the feeding a bit. And keep up with the water changes, as suggested, slowly and carefully.
Are you using test strips or test kits with test tubes and solutions or pellets? The latter are a bit more accurate and cheaper in the long run. Ammonia and ph are the ones you will always have to monitor more closely with that fish than one would usually.
I wouldn't worry about sex right now, myself. Those fish are just cute and entertaining no matter what.
But you might want to lose the castle before you wake up one day and find he is either stuck in it or has eaten it ;-)
Hey, it happens with goldfish--at least the stuck part.
troi