the thing is, the 'male' chases the 'female' away whenever she gets too near, especially at feeding time.
I think this means they are both male and the other one is slow with his bristles, but my hubby says the male is just grumpy/greedy
I just wanted some opinions from here - would a male be territorial with a female? or only with another male? Is my male being territorial? or just grumpy?
thanks in advance

PS he chases the other fish away from his food too, but not as much as he chases this female. In fact he will chase her off her piece of courgette, even when he has his own piece, and the pieces are at opposite sides of the tank!